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Naming slaves

(10) There is a tradition of slaves' names being assigned by their owners, and this is also true to a lesser extent in the case of submissives.

Many slaves are also not permitted full use of capital letters when referring to themselves, by using the pronoun "i" or by beginning their name with a lowercase letter. Despite assertions that this is purely "an internet thing" there is a long tradition of using the lower case to display humility.

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Neck Snap

(2) The involuntary snapping back of the neck that may occur after a submissive is struck forcefully on the back or buttocks. This can cause neck damage if measures are not taken to halt or minimize that activity.

(11) The involuntary snapping back of the neck that may occur after a submissive is struck forcefully on the back or buttocks. This can cause neck damage if measures are not taken to halt or minimize that activity.

Necrophilia

(4) Sexual intercourse with, or attraction towards, corpses.

Need

(10) Needs are desires of a submissive (or dominant) which cannot go unmet over time without harm. This is in contrast to wants which can go unmet without harm.

In O&P, it is the dominant's responsibility to ensure that needs are addressed, although the practicalities of achieving this may be delegated to the submissive in question or a third party. Different needs have different levels of urgency and frequency, and the elasticity of a need reflects this. Some needs, such as oxygen, are not at all elastic and a dominant has little scope in prioritizing them; but others, such as leading a purposeful life and growing as an individual, are very elastic and frequently put aside for a time in favor of more important tasks.

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Needle Play

(2) Temporary piercings done with sterile needles of varying gauges, usually only for the duration of a scene.

(4) Activity involving placing needles through the top layer of skin, or using needles for temporary piercings.

(9) Involves the use or threat of needles (E)

(c) High Risk

Negotiate

(2) Conversation held to outline the details of a scene or D/s relationship. All parties must agree on the specifics of the scene or relationship before any play or service occurs.

(7) To discuss (and if Consensual then agree) on the details of what will and will not be done during an SM session. Can mean discussing the terms of a contract between a Master and slave.

(11) Conversation held for the purpose of outlining the details of a scene or D/s relationship. It is necessary that all parties agree on the specifics of the scene or relationship before any play or service occurs.

Negotiation

(1) Discussing hard and soft limits and related items of BDSM taste before any play or relationship begins. Often refers to discussions regarding a potential “slave contract.”

(4) The art of reaching a clear agreement with your partner about the sort of play session or relationship you want and the things you will do together. Arguably one of the most important BDSM skills.

Newbie/novice

(1) Someone new to the BDSM lifestyle.

(2) A person who is just beginning to explore the BDSM world. Most organizations and experienced players are newcomer friendly.

(4) A newcomer to the BDSM scene.

New Leather

(2) Anything of or related to a specific part of the BDSM community which began taking the place of the old leather community in the late 1980s and early 1990s. The new leather community abandoned many of the rigid hierarchies and strict protocols of the old leather community and welcomed lesbians and heterosexuals interested in BDSM.

(4) Anything of or related to a specific part of the BDSM community which began taking the place of the old leather community in the late 1980s to the early 1990s. The new leather community abandoned many of the rigid hierarchies and strict protocols of the old community.

Nipple Clamp; pl., Nipple Clamps

(2) Any clamp or clamp-like device designed to be clamped to a subject's nipples. May include a mechanism for adjusting or limiting the amount of pressure applied to the nipple. Clothespins make good (and cheap!) nipple clamps. See related clover clamps, tweezer clamps.

(3) Clamp-type devices are placed on the nipples during play to stimulate and stop blood flow to the nipple. One of the general household items to be used is clothespins. Care should be exercised to be sure the material used in the clamp, does not stick to the skin, as tearing can occur.
(3) See also: Clothespins.

(4) Improvised from everyday things like clothespins or crocodile clips or maybe purpose-made and are applied, as the name suggests, to the nipples.

(8) A clamp used to stimulate the nipples by applying varying degrees of pressure. Its basic principle relies on the restriction of blood flow to the erect nipple. They are often used in certain BDSM activities, on both men and women. The use of nipple clamps is often portrayed in the media as deviant or kinky sexual behavior.

Nipple Rings

(3) A ring that is worn through the nipple. Piercing of the nipple and inserting a ring, similar to nose piercing. This type of piercing stimulates the nipple.
(3) Should be done by a professional.

Nipple Torture; also, Nipple Play, Tit Torture, TT

(2) The stimulation of the nipples in a painfully erotic way with clamps, teeth, whips, needles, or other devices.

(4) Because nipples are so sensitive and erogenous they are a prime target for teasing and torment in a variety of ways, including the use of nipple clamps, hot wax, or whipping.

(11) The stimulation of the nipples in a painfully erotic way with clamps, teeth, whips, needles, or other devices.

Nonconsensual; also, Non-consensual

(2) An act that is done against another person's will.

(4) If the motto of good BDSM is 'safe, sane, and consensual' then it follows that any BDSM activity, which is genuinely non-consensual, is to be avoided. The reality of non-consensual action is that it is abuse and not BDSM.

(7) Anything done by one person to another without their agreement.

(11) An act that is done against another person's will.

(c) High Risk
(c) Legal High Risk
(c) Without consent, it is not BDSM, it is abuse.

Nose Hook

(2) A set of rigid, blunt hooks, about an inch long, connected to a length of rope, cord, or chain. The hooks are inserted in a person's nose and the rope is tied above or behind the person, forcing the head up. Sometimes used in shibari.

Nostril Strap; also, Nostril Hook

(2) See nose hook.

(4) Most commonly favored in Japanese BDSM, the nostril strap is made usually of bent wire with a string attached. The wire ends hook into the nostrils producing eye-watering pain if the string is pulled.

Novice

(4) Someone new to BDSM who lacks experience.

(11) A person who is just beginning to explore the BDSM world. Most organizations and experienced players are newcomer friendly.
(11) See also BDSM

Nullification

(2) Sexual arousal from the act of amputation.

(4) Sexual arousal from the act of amputation.

(w) Nullification involves the voluntary removal of body parts. Body parts that are commonly removed by those practicing body nullification are the penis, testicles, clitoris, labia, and nipples. Sometimes people who desire a nullification may be diagnosed with gender dysphoria, body integrity identity disorder, or apotemnophilia.

(c) A male version of this includes surgically removing the penis, testicles, scrotum, both nipples, and all body hair below the nose to achieve a "Ken doll" (of the Barbie toy line) look. In some instances, the gratification is in the result and not the process.
(c) High Risk; Even if done by medical professionals, the removal of body parts is high risk due to the possibility of infection and later urinary or other dysfunctions.

Nyotaimori

(9) Eating sushi off a person’s body.

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