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Gag; pl., Gags

(2) Many kinds are available but are often ball gags or penis-shaped gags. Sometimes inflatable.

(3) To restrict the use of the mouth by inserting a gag, in various textures (i.e., cloth, leather, ballgag, etc.). When using gags, it is important to remember that these only be worn for short periods of time.
(3) This form of play can be dangerous.

(4) Devices inserted into or covering the mouth to muffle sound or create feelings of helplessness.

Garters and Stocking

(9) Many men get turned on seeing a woman in this (now) uncommon underwear.

Gasper; Colloquial

(2) One who participates or engages in breath control or auto-erotic asphyxia.

(4) One who participates or engages in breath control or auto-erotic asphyxiation.

Gasping; Colloquial

(2) See breath control.

Gas Mask

(3) A mask worn on the face connected to a chemical air filter and used to protect the face and lungs from toxic gases. Used mostly in heavy S/m scening.

Gates of Hell

(2) Leather or rubber device consisting of several straps which enclose and restrict the penis and testicles. Used as a male chastity device.

(3) A type of cock ring worn around the base of the testicles and penis to restrict blood flow to the penis during erotic scening. Specially designed, this type of cock ring is usually made of metal and has several rings attached together, ranging from the largest at the base and going smaller toward the tip.

(4) A linked series of rings, usually metal, of diminishing size which are fitted around the cock and held in place by a leather strap around the balls. Initially fitted to a flaccid cock, the device grips ever more tightly as the unfortunate victim becomes aroused and his cock becomes erect.

Gay

(6) 1 adj. : experiencing attraction solely (or primarily) to some members of the same gender. Can be used to refer to men who are attracted to other men and women who are attracted to women.
(6) 2 adj. : an umbrella term used to refer to the queer community as a whole, or as an individual identity label for anyone who is not straight.
(6) See LGBTQ and queer.

(8) A man who prefers sex with another man.

Gender binary

(6) noun: the idea that there are only two genders and that every person is one of those two.

Gender dysphoria

(2) To be uncomfortable with or unhappy about one's sex. Some people satisfy this condition by cross-dressing or behaving like the opposite sex. Others choose gender reassessment to find satisfaction in their lives.

(11) To be uncomfortable with or unhappy about one's sex. Some people satisfy this condition by cross-dressing or behaving like the opposite sex. Others choose gender reassessment to find satisfaction in their lives.

Gender expression

(6) noun: the external display of one’s gender, through a combination of clothing, grooming, demeanor, social behavior, and other factors, generally made sense of on scales of masculinity and femininity.
(6) Also referred to as “gender presentation.”

Gender identity

(6) noun: the internal perception of one’s gender, and how they label themselves, based on how much they align or don’t align with what they understand their options for gender to be.
(6) Often conflated with biological sex, or sex assigned at birth.

Gender neutrois

(6) adj. : See agender

Gender non-conforming

(6) 1 adj. : a gender descriptor that indicates a non-traditional gender expression or identity (e.g., "masculine woman").
(6) 2 adj. : a gender identity label that indicates a person who identifies outside of the gender binary.
(6) Often abbreviated as “GNC.”

Gender normative; also, Gender straight

(6) adj. : someone whose gender presentation, whether by nature or by choice, aligns with society’s gender-based expectations.

Gender Orientation

(4) Identification with a particular gender. So for example, a male transsexual might have a female gender orientation (i.e. see himself as a woman) but still prefer to have sex with either men or women. Confused?

Gender Play

(2) Play in which one or both parties assume the persona of a gender opposite of that they were born as.

(4) Dressing up or taking the role of the other sex during play.

(11) Play in which one or both parties assume the persona of gender opposite of that they were born as.

Gender variant

(6) adj. : someone who either by nature or by choice does not conform to gender-based expectations of society (e.g. transgender, transsexual, intersex, genderqueer, cross-dresser, etc).
(6) See gender non-conforming.

Genderfluid; also, Gender fluid

(6) 1 adj. : a gender identity label often used by people whose sense of self in relation to gender changes from time-to-time. The time frame might be over the course of many months, days, shorter, or longer, but the consistent experience is one of change.
(6) 2 adj. : a general descriptor for an individual's or society's ever-changing (i.e., "fluid") embodiment of gender, in the ways it affects us or we express it individually (e.g., someone might express gender fluidly), and/or in how it is socially constructed.

Genderqueer

(6) 1 adj. : a gender identity label often used by people who do not identify with the binary of man/woman.
(6) 2 adj. : an umbrella term for many gender non-conforming or non-binary identities (e.g., agender, bigender, genderfluid).

Genital Massage

(8) Stimulating the genitals with the hands, usually during sensual massage.

Genital Sex

(3) To cause an orgasm through the genital area, done strictly to the genital area with any body part or through the use of toys.

Genitorture; also, Geni-torture

(2) The erotic manipulation of the genitals in an intense manner.
(2) See clit torture and CBT.

(4) Pain play inflicted on the genitals.

(11) The erotic manipulation of the genitals in an intense manner.
(11) See also clit torture; CBT.

German

(4) Yet another 'code-word' for sado-masochism.

Gerontophilia

(9) Attraction to someone in a much older age group.

Gimp; Colloquial

(2) A submissive; most often, a gay male submissive. Usage: Almost always refers to a submissive who frequently wears tight-fitting vinyl, leather, PVC, or rubber suits with a hood or mask. Sometimes used insultingly or to indicate derision of the person so named.

(c) Sometimes used in a pejorative manner or for a handicapped person.

Gimp Mask; Colloquial

(2) A specific form of a hood, often made of heavy leather or rubber, which entirely encloses the face and head, and which often lacks openings for the eyes, mouth, or ears.

(4) A specific form of a hood, often made of heavy leather or rubber, which entirely encloses the face and head, and often lacks openings for eyes, mouth, or ears.

Gimp Suit; Colloquial

(2) Any tight, formfitting suit, typically made of black rubber, PVC, heavy leather, or similar material, which encloses the wearer's entire body. May have straps, rings, or other accessories which can serve as tie-down points.

Girl

(2) A submissive (not always female) who takes a child to parent role when interacting with a Dominant.

(11) A submissive (not always female) who takes a child to parent role when interacting with a Dominant.

(c) Related Daughter, Son, Boy, Boi.

Given Away

(3) Where a Dominant releases a sub to another Dominant, without exchange of favors.

Goddess Worship

(2) The worshipping of divine, feminine images and women as magnifications of the Goddess.

(11) The worshipping of divine, feminine images and women as magnifications of the Goddess.

Going Commando; American slang

(w) Not wearing underpants under outer clothing.
(w) Related Free-balling for males, free-buffing for females.

Going Under

(2) The assuming of a submissive mind-space during, or in preparation of, participation in an SM session or activity.
(2) See Bottom space.

(11) The assuming of a submissive mind-space during, or in preparation of, participation in an SM session or activity.
(11) See also Bottom space.

Golden Shower; pl., Golden Showers

(2) One person erotically urinating on another person.

(3) Play that involves urinating on one's submissive or vice versa.

(4) Pissing on your partner or having them piss on you. The 'golden shower' is the urine.

(7) The act of one person urinating on another as an erotic activity.

(8) A vernacular term for urophilia.
(8) See Water Sports

(9) Peeing one someone (E).

(11) One person urinating on another person in an erotic manner.

(c) Also Brown, Perl, Roman, Yellow

GLBT

(8) Generic descriptive term for the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender community.

(c) usage becoming in disuse in favor of LGBTQI and other versions of expanded acronyms to be more inclusive in language and of sexual minorities.

Gor

(2) A mythical planet created by science fiction writer John Norman and used as the setting for an entire series of science fiction novels. The novels describe a civilization in which women occupy an extremely submissive position in society and are often used as sex slaves. The novels describe a formalized, ritualized set of social structures centered around female submission and male superiority, which have been adopted by a subcommunity of people within the BDSM community.

(4) A mythical planet created by science fiction writer John Norman and used as a setting for an entire series of science fiction novels.

(10) Gor the Counter-Earth, is the alternate-world setting for John Norman's "Chronicles of Gor", a series of 26 novels that combine philosophy, erotica, and science fiction.

The customs, terminology, and imagery depicted in these books have inspired a related BDSM-influenced subculture. On- and off-line followers of this lifestyle are called Goreans.

John Norman
John Norman, pen name of John Frederick Lange, Jr. (born June 3, 1931), is the author of the Gor series, which sold several million copies in the 1970s and early 1980s, and still has many fervent fans today. He holds a Ph.D. from Princeton University and is a philosophy professor at Queens College of the City University of New York in New York City.

As well as the Gor books, Norman published a non-fictional sex manual "Imaginative Sex" in 1974, which presents a series of elaborate fantasy scenarios to be acted out (rather than advocating a real-world 24/7 lifestyle), and recommends that symbolic substitutes (such as the sound of claps) should be used instead of actual physical chastisements (such as whippings). Most of the scenarios are maledom / femsub, but a few portray men as the slaves of women and anticipate the eroticized first-person male slave narratives of some of the Gorean novels.

Norman developed similar male dominant, female submissive philosophies in his other fantasy/science fiction novels, but these failed to attract many fans. They include Time Slave (1975) and Ghost Dance (1979) which are set in a pseudo-historical Earth, and a science fiction trilogy, the Telnarian Histories (The Chieftain, The Captain, and The King) that he wrote in the early 1990s.

The books
The first book, "Tarnsman of Gor", was published in 1967 and like most of the subsequent titles, was narrated by British college teacher Tarl Cabot, a master swordsman and possibly Norman's alter-ego, as he engages in adventures involving humans and alien species on Gor. Unlike later books in the series, Cabot rejects Gor's slave-owning society. He sets his slave girl free and then sets off for a swashbuckling adventure. In later books, Cabot slowly embraces slave-owning and eventually owns several slaves. Books 7, 11, 19, 22, and 26 of the series are narrated by abducted Earth women who are made slaves and who describe how they come to enjoy their slavery. Books 14, 15, and 16 are narrated by male abductee (and initially slave) Jason Marshall, who escapes from slavery and thus affirms Norman's male-dominant philosophy.

Although bondage, sadism, and slavery have always been present in the Gor books, passages of philosophical and psychological justification for male dominance became longer and longer as the series continued, increasingly detracting from the books' plots. Possible reasons for this include Norman's use of his then-popular series to battle the emerging feminist movement or demand for his books was so great that they were printed without editing by the later publishers of the series. In any case, the significant readership among people uncomfortable with either BDSM or his distracting justifications was lost. His philosophical diatribes are so wordy, so pedantic, and so formulaic that they have inspired numerous parodies (for example, Houseplant of Gor Archive).

Themes
Norman repeatedly presents pseudo-Darwinian analyses of gender differences to contend that women are the submissive natural helpers, and figurative slaves, of men. His work often takes this observation literally: heroes enslave heroines who, upon being enslaved, revel in the discovery of their natural place.

At right, versions of the female ("Kajira") and male ("Kajirus") forms of the Kef symbol, which is the main Gorean slave marking.

Goreans on Earth
The word Gorean is also applied to adherents of the philosophies espoused in Norman's writings, especially someone who lives a lifestyle based on this philosophy. While the most conspicuous Gorean departure from mainstream modern norms is that Goreans allow and indeed promote sexual master/slave relationships, many who take the Gorean worldview seriously would insist that being Gorean is not necessarily about either sex or slavery, but about the general Gorean philosophy: that is, living in accordance with a Nietzsche-esque natural order, sponsoring a hierarchy of talent, especially strength.

For years there has been an active fan base on the Internet, particularly on IRC channels which sprang up during the mid-1990s, offering Gorean roleplaying in the style of online BDSM. Almost all writers and websites advocating the Gorean philosophy have grown out of online roleplay environments.

Criticisms

• Goreanism is a naive application of Darwinism, confusing sexual and social dominance.
• Everything useful in Gorean D/s is present in mainstream D/s; everything unique to Gorean D/s is not useful in real-life D/s.
• The concept of failure expounded with Gorean D/s provides "slaves" with a veto over the relationship.

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Gorean

(2) A subgenre based upon the rituals and practices created within the world of Gor in the erotic novels by John Norman. Gorean culture is based on stereotypical gender-based roles which are considered by many to conflict with BDSM where there is freedom for either gender to act in any role (Male/Female as either Dom/sub or Top/bottom)

(4) The term comes from a series of over 20 science fiction novels about a planet called Gor written by John Norman (real name John Frederick Lange). The slave culture described obviously struck a chord with many D/s devotees, because Gorean websites, newsgroups, and chat rooms have sprung up all over the internet where people engage in a fantasy life based on the world described in these novels.

Gorean D/s

(4) Male domination and female submission according to a set of rules adapted from the fictitious society described in the Gor novels. Characterized by strong hierarchy, male supremacy, and an elaborate set system of protocols. Includes such elements as ritualized postures and positions which women are expected to assume in the presence of men.

Go Under

(2) Term used to describe assuming a submissive role.
(2) Example: "I would love to go under for her".

(11) Term used to describe assuming a submissive role.
(11) Example: "I would love to go under for her".

Governess

(2) A Victorian-style Dominatrix who takes on a parental role when associating with a submissive.

(11) A Victorian-style Dominatrix who takes on a parental role when associating with a submissive.

Graphoerotica

(9) Writing words on someone’s body.

Grope Box

(2) A long, narrow, enclosed box, often made of wood, with many openings along its front and sides, into which a person may be placed and then groped or fondled by people outside the box. A person within a grope box is helpless to prevent the fondling and often cannot see the people doing the fondling.

(4) A long, narrow, enclosed box, often made of wood, with many openings along its front and sides, into which a person may be placed and then groped or fondled by people outside the box. A person inside the box is helpless to prevent the fondling and often cannot see who is doing the fondling.

(c) See similar coffin

Greek; Colloquial

(2) Of or related to anal sex.

(4) A 'code-word' for anal sex. Sometimes also used specifically for homosexual anal sex.

Gun Play

(2) The practice of including actual (or simulated) firearms into a scene.

(3) Scenes involving the use of firearms.
(3) Note: Gun Play is a dangerous form of play and should not be entered into lightly. Serious consequences could occur from such play and it is not recommended, It is also considered illegal.

(9) Arousal from use or threat of a firearm (E).

(c) High Risk, dangerous.

Gynarchy

(2) 1. Formally, Sociology A political or governmental system ruled by women.
(2) 2. Colloquial Femdom, particularly femdom in which all females are assumed to be superior to the male.

(w) A matrifocal family structure is one where mothers head families and fathers play a less important role in the home and in bringing up children.

Gynesexual; also, Gynephilic /“guy-nuh-seks-shu-uhl”/

(6) adj. : being primarily sexually, romantically, and/or emotionally attracted to women, females, and/or femininity.

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