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Face Fucking

(9) Blowjob where the man roughly fucks someone’s mouth.

Face-Sitting; aka Queening

(2) To have your face sat upon by the Mistress. The details vary; some face-sitting is simply an expression of dominance; some is a part of breathing restriction games; some are explicitly sexual and the submissive is expected to perform cunnilingus on the Mistress. The last-named variant is common between lovers, but rare in professional BDSM; most professional Mistresses do not allow it and may be offended if a client asks for it.

Face Slapping

(3) Involves play where a moderate amount of slapping of the face is used for humiliation/control. This play can be dangerous if an eye is struck, etc.

(c) Moderate Risk; Possibility for eye injury or brain damage depending on where the slap occurs and the amount of force used.

Facial Hair

(9) You like beards and mustaches etc.

Fag; also, Faggot

(6) noun: a derogatory term referring to a gay person, or someone perceived as queer. While often used derogatorily, it is also used reclaimed by some gay people (often gay men) as a positive in-group term.

Fag-hag

(2) A term used in describing a woman who focuses sexual attention on gay males.

(11) A term used in describing a woman who focuses sexual attention on gay males.

(w) gay slang: A woman who associates either mostly or exclusively with gay and bisexual men. The phrase originated in gay male culture in the United States and was historically an insult.

(w) Related term fag-stag.

(c) Sometimes used in a pejorative manner.

Fall

(2) The striking end of a singletail.

(4) The striking end of a singletail whip.

Fantasy

(8) A mental image or illusion, sometimes sexual.

Fantasy Abandonment

(3) Play involving the fantasy of abandonment. Possibly leaving the submissive in a deserted area or public area for a short period of time to exert control and punishment.

(c) Moderate Risk; Aftercare is important.

Fantasy Play

(8) Acting out sexual fantasies.

Fantasy Rape

(3) Scenes where the Dominant fulfills a submissive's fantasy of rape.
(3) Note: This type of play can become quite emotional for the submissive, so use extreme care when performing this type of play.
(3) After-care is extremely important.
(3) See also: Fantasy Rape (Gang).

(c) Moderate Risk; Aftercare is important.

Fantasy Rape (Gang)

(3) Involves the same type of play except for a scene being performed by a group.
(3) See also: Fantasy Rape.

(c) High Risk; Aftercare is important.

Fear

(3) Incorporating fear into scenes by using the submissive's own fears as an outline for play.
(3) Note: This type of play can become quite emotional for the submissive, so take extreme care when performing this type of play, and aftercare is important again.

(c) High Risk; Aftercare is important.

Fellatio

(2) Mouth to penis contact.

(3) Performing oral sex on a man's penis.
(3) See also: Head

(8) Oral sex performed on a man.

(11) Mouth to penis contact.

Femdom

(2) A power exchange relationship in which the dominant is female. Often (but not always) used to refer to a relationship between a female dominant and a male submissive.

(4) A power exchange relationship in which the dominant is female and the submissive is male.

Femme

(2) A lesbian or bisexual woman who has deep feminine qualities.

(6) noun & adj. : someone who identifies themselves as feminine, whether it be physically, mentally or emotionally. Often used to refer to a feminine-presenting queer woman or people.

(11) A lesbian or bisexual woman who has deep feminine qualities.

Feminine-of-center; contrast with, Masculine-of-center

(6) adj.: a phrase that indicates a range in terms of gender identity and expression for people who present, understand themselves, and/or relate to others in a generally more feminine/masculine way, but don’t necessarily identify as women or men. Feminine-of-center individuals may also identify as “femme,” “submissive,” “transfeminine,” etc.
(6) contrast with masculine-of-center individuals may also often identify as “butch,” “stud,” “aggressive,” “boi,” “transmasculine,” etc.

(c) also (pending), Masculine-of-center

Feminine-presenting; contrast with, Masculine-presenting

(6) adj.: a way to describe someone who expresses gender in a more feminine/masculine way. Often confused with feminine-of-center/masculine-of-center, which generally include a focus on identity as well as expression.

(c) also (pending), Masculine-presenting

Femme Domme

(2) A lesbian or bisexual feminine Dominant.

(11) A lesbian or bisexual feminine Dominant.

Feminization

(2) Dressing a male or butch female submissive in female clothing and requiring a total female persona to be assumed. This can be seen as humiliating or as a reward depending on the submissive.

(4) The practice of enforcing activities or behavior in a male submissive which are typically associated with women, such as cross-dressing. Often used as a form of humiliation. Often called sissification.

(11) Dressing a male or butch female submissive in female clothing and requiring a total female persona to be assumed. This can be seen as humiliating or as a reward depending on the submissive.

Ferula

(2) See tawse.
(2) Usage: Originated in Catholic schools; uncommon among people who have not attended Catholic school.

Fetish

(8) An object that replaces people as the primary object of love.

(11) An article or action that causes arousal in a person that would not normally be considered sexual.

Fetish

(2) An article or action that causes arousal in a person that would not normally be considered sexual.

(4) Word used to describe any sexual fixation upon an activity or object which often (but certainly not always) has its roots in some powerful experience or image from childhood. Common fetishes include feet, corsets, shoes, rubber, latex, and leather, used panties, small furry animals, and other things too weird to even contemplate.

(7) Sexual arousal to items, body parts, or behaviors that are not innately sexual.

(11) An article or action that causes arousal in a person that would not normally be considered sexual.

Fetishism

(2) A sexual responsiveness to items, body parts, or behaviors that are not normally viewed as sexual.

(11) A sexual responsiveness to items, body parts, or behaviors that are not normally viewed as sexual.

Fetishist

(a) A person whose sexual desire or gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, activity, part of the body, etc.: there are plenty of foot fetishists online.
(a) A person who has an excessive and irrational devotion or commitment to a particular thing: a clothes fetishist | a fetishist about accuracy.

Fetters

(2) Restraints that are placed on the feet.
(2) See leg irons.

(11) Restraints that are placed on the feet.

Fiddle

(2) A type of restraint consisting of a short metal rod that has a locking collar, usually made of metal, affixed to one end and a pair of locking cuffs on the other, or a rigid yoke with openings for the neck on one end and the wrists on the other. Used to bind the wrists together and prevent freedom of movement of the hands and arms.

(4) A type of restraint consisting of a short metal rod with a locking collar, usually made of metal, affixed to one end and a pair of locking cuffs on the other. Used to bind the wrists together and prevent freedom of movement of the hands and arms.

Figging

(2) The practice of placing a piece of carved ginger root into the anus or vagina. The result is a burning sensation which many people claim can intensify orgasm, and which other people use as an adjunct to physical discipline such as spanking.

(4) The practice of placing a piece of carved ginger root into the anus or vagina. The result is a burning sensation, which many claim to intensify orgasm.

(9) Inserting a peeled piece of fresh ginger into the anus.

Fillatio

(5) Sexually stimulating the penis with mouth/tongue.
(5) List Category: Sex

Finger Sex

(5) Using a finger or multiple fingers for sexual stimulation.
(5) List Category: Sex

Fire and Ice

(4) A practice which involves in BDSM play the use of heat and cold, often candle wax for heat (the fire) and ice cubes (the ice) applied to the bare skin, especially the nipples or genital area.

Fire play; also, Fire-play, Flame Play

(2) A scene involving the use of fire on the body of another person. Done correctly it is painless and safe.

(3) Play which involves the use of fire in scening. It should be noted here that using any type of fire/flame during scening is quite dangerous and could result in permanent scarring/burning of the body.
(3) Use extreme care when using fire in scenes, as this is extremely dangerous and not to be done by a novice.

(9) Play that involves fire (E).

(11) A scene involving the use of fire on the body of another person. Done correctly it is painless and safe.

(c) High Risk

Fire Whip

(2) 1. A flogger with multiple lashes made of flat woven Kevlar, designed to be soaked with a flammable accelerant such as lighter fluid and then ignited before use. The fire whip is used by keeping it continuously in motion so that it strikes the target for very brief periods of time to avoid burning the person being whipped.
(2) 2. A type of singletail consisting of a rigid handle connected to a long, flexible Kevlar rope, often with a short length of Kevlar string on the end, designed to be soaked in an accelerant and then ignited before use.

First Girl

(2) In the Gor novels, one of a group of female sex slaves owned by the same master, who is considered 'first' or predominant over the other sex slaves. In Gorean D/s, a woman who identifies as a slave and has status or rank over any other women who consider themselves slaves to the same person.

(c) Non-Gor Related, First Boy, First Son, and related terms.
(c) Leather Related Head slave

Fisticuff; Archaic

(2) 1. To strike with the closed hand.

Fisticuffs; Archaic

(2) 1. The fists.
(2) 2. Colloquial A fistfight.
(2) Expression: Get into fisticuffs: Engage in a fight with bare fists.

(4) To strike with a closed hand.

Fisting, Anal/Vaginal; alsoFist Fucking

(2) The act of inserting the entire hand into the vagina or anus. This practice requires time, patience, and a lot of lubricant.

(3) Play that involves placing or attempting to place the entire hand (or even both hands) in the rectum/vagina. The hand is only formed into a fist, and once fully inserted, requires extreme gentleness, care, and patience. Involves moving the fist in and out of the orifice and can be a dangerous technique if not performed correctly. Proper study should be done, before attempting such, and aftercare is extremely important.
(3) This form of play is dangerous.

(4) The insertion of the whole hand into the anus (anal fisting) or the vagina (vaginal fisting).

(7) The process of inserting the hand completely into the anus.

(8) Inserting a fist or hand into the vagina or anus.

(9) Using a fist to penetrate the vagina or anus.

(11) The act of inserting the entire hand into the vagina or anus. This practice requires time, patience, and a lot of lubricant.

(c) As with any sexual activity, use barriers such as gloves to avoid transmission of STDs. To protect the anus/vagina, regardless of any form of monogamy, gloves should be worn to better protect the anus/vagina from sharp fingernails and hangnails.
(c) Also: Footing.
(c) High Risk

Fisting Sling

(2) A sling designed in such a way that the person within the sling is reclined with the legs spread apart, in a posture convenient for fisting.

(4) A sling designed in such a way that the person within the sling is reclined with the legs spread apart, in a posture convenient for fisting.

Five banding

(10) The practice of five banding, or saying that a slave is five banded, involves wearing locked restraints on the neck and all four limbs - for example, a collar, bracelets and anklets - and signifies the complete subjugation of the slave.

The term was popularised by Sharon Green's Terrillian Warrior series of books. For example, near the start of "The Warrior Challenged":

Sharon Green wrote:

I looked down at the bronze bands on my wrists and ankles, feeling the one around my neck even if I couldn't see it, knowing they were all beyond a woman's strength to open. The light, small-linked chains marked me as Tammad's property, his beyond argument or offer. I hated being locked in chain; to me it was a measure of things on that world that being five-banded was the highest distinction a woman could achieve.

The Gorean siriks described by John Norman can be thought of as five-banding cuffs linked by a chain.

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Flagellant

(8) A person who undergoes whipping or scourging, especially as a religious penitent, or as a sexual masochist.

Flagellation

(2) Striking of a person repeatedly in an erotic context. Includes flogging, spanking, paddling, and whipping.

(4) A generic term for any sort of activity involving flogging or whipping.

(7) The act of one person striking another in usually an erotic context. Activities included are spanking, paddling, and whipping.

(8) Striking a person with an object. Beating with a whip or strap or rope as a form of punishment

(11) Striking of a person repeatedly in an erotic context. Includes flogging, spanking, paddling, and whipping.

Flagging

(2) The use of keys, bandanas, toys, or other items worn to indicate a person's preference in the role and/or play activities. Items worn on the left indicate the person is Dominant, right equals bottom or submissive.
(2) See Hanky Codes.

(4) The act of wearing specific clothing, insignia, jewelry, or other sign as a means of expressing interest in a specific form of BDSM activity.

(10) Flagging is the practice of wearing specific clothing, insignia, or accessories to indicate a particular BDSM or sexual interest or orientation.

In the Leather Subculture, the Hanky Code provides a way of declaring interests using different colored handkerchiefs worn in a back trouser pocket (eg gray = bondage). Although the use of flagging has declined, it is conventional for tops to wear the hanky on the left, and bottoms to wear it on the right. This convention may also extend to keys.

There is no universal flagging convention amongst the Ownership Subculture, but due to the large overlap with Leather, the same left-right associations would be an obvious choice.

The collar worn by owned submissives and slaves can also be seen as a form of flagging, and the Ownership Icons provide a set of visual flags.

The iron signet ring in The Story of O can be viewed as a fictional instance of flagging.

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(11) The use of keys, bandanas, toys or other item worn to indicate a persons preference in role and/or play activities. Items worn on the left indicate the person is Dominant, right equals bottom or submissive.
(11) See also Hanky Codes.

(c) There are many lists showing Hanky Codes. There is a problem in a darkly lit establishment when various shades, most notably blue, have differing meanings. Also over time, the colors tend to fade. It is best to ask before assuming a particular color is a match to the fetish one is seeking a partner for.

Flame Play

(c) See Fire-Play.

Flat collar

(10) A flat collar is a rigid collar in the form of a thick metal band. Unlike the circular Turian collar, it is rectangular in cross-section. The term "flat collar" is derived from the name for leather dog collars of the same shape.

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Flipping

(2) To turn tables on a Top in a scene. This is usually neither a welcomed practice nor a suggested one.

(11) To turn tables on a Top in a scene. This is usually neither a welcomed practice nor a suggested one.

Flog

(2) To strike with a flogger.

(4) To strike with a flogger.

Flogger

(1) One of the most popular BDSM toys. It is made up of a handle and several leather straps which are attached to it. It can be used to whip or caress.

(2) A multi-tailed whip made up of long, flat strips of leather or flexible material. Most floggers produce a heavy thud as opposed to the stingy sensation of the cat-o-nine.

(3) A whip device usually with many "tails". Used on buttocks or back, generally to make nerve sensations greater. Floggers can be used on the genital areas. Can be used for play or punishment.
(3) This form of play is not for the novice and can be dangerous.
(3) See also: Strapping, Whipping.

(4) A multi-thonged whip, often made out of deerskin, elk, suede, or other pliable leathers.

(7) A multi-tailed whip made of long strips of leather or other flexible material attached to a handle.

(11) A multi-tailed whip made up of long, flat strips of leather or flexible material. Most floggers produce a heavy thud as opposed to the stingy sensation of the cat-o-nine.

Flogging

(9) Striking someone with a multi-tailed whip.

Flogging horse

(3) A device used to secure one on this bench-like, padded, sawhorse. Usually made waist height, with the use of tethers attached to wall or floor to secure the submissive. A well-designed horse will allow open spread usage of the submissive when mounted properly upon.

Florentine

(2) A flashy flogging technique involving the use of a flogger in each hand. The floggers are swung in a figure-8 pattern. Sometimes called a double weave.
(2) See related triple weave.

(4) A flashing flogging technique involving the use of a flogger in each hand. The floggers are swung in a figure-8 pattern. Sometimes called a double-weave.

Fluid; also, Fluidity

(6) adj.: generally with another term attached, like "gender fluid" or fluid sexuality, fluid(ity) describes an identity that may change or shift over time between or within the mix of the options available (e.g., man and woman, bi and straight).

Flying

(4) A transcendental endorphin-induced state of bliss reported by some submissives during BDSM.

Food Play

(2) A scene involving the use of food on, or in, a submissive for decoration or other erotic purposes. Human sundaes and buffet tables are popular at SM gatherings. Pineapple dildos make wonderful centerpieces!

(3) Where the Dominant controls amount and type of food allowed to be consumed by the submissive. This includes liquid intake as well.

(9) Using food during sex

(11) A scene involving the use of food on, or in, a submissive for decoration or other erotic purpose. Human sundaes and buffet tables are popular at SM gatherings. Pineapple dildos make wonderful centerpieces!

(c) See also: Force-Feeding

Foot Fetish

(4) A fairly common fetish, in which the foot (or shoes) is the trigger for sexual desire.

(9) Getting turned on by feet.

Foot Worship

(3) The practice of play involving a fetish for feet. Commonly used for Domination and humiliation practices (i.e., licking/cleaning of the Dominant's feet).
(3) See also: Boot Worship, High Heels, Homage, Licking.

Force-me Queen

(2) A submissive that enjoys being "forced" to perform submissive acts.

(11) A submissive that enjoys being "forced" to perform submissive acts.

Forced Bedwetting

(3) Forcing the submissive to purposely urinate in the bed. Most commonly used as a form of control/humiliation and in age play scenes.

Forced Dressing

(3) Forcing the submissive to dress however the Dominant sees fit, whether publicly or privately. Used generally for humiliation.

Forced Feeding; also, Force-Feeding

(3) A technique by which the Dominant controls the submissive's eating habits. Used to "fatten up" submissives or in age play games.

(9) Feeding someone so they gain weight.

Forced Heterosexuality

(3) Play involving the submissive performing forced sex with someone of the opposite sex.

Forced Homosexuality

(3) Scenes where the submissive is forced into having sexual relations with someone of the same sex.

Forced Masturbation

(3) Scenes where the submissive is forced to perform masturbation in front of/for the Dominant or others as a form of erotic/sensual play or humiliation.

Forced Nudity

(3) A scene that involves forcing one's submissive to remain nude either privately or publicly. Generally as a form of control/humiliation.
(3) Note: In some areas, this is illegal in public.

Forced Orgasm

(2) An orgasm induced in a person against that person's will or as part of resistance play, often through bondage combined with sexual stimulation.
(2) See related consensual non-consent.

(4) An orgasm induced in a person against a person’s will or as part of resistance play, often by means of bondage combined with sexual stimulation.

Forced Servitude

(3) A form of play involving the submissive acting as a servant/maid to the Dominant. May be played out in public or in private as a form of humiliation.

Forced Sex

(4) In this context, a consensual fantasy role-play where the dom pretends to force a sexual activity upon the submissive. It might involve forced oral sex or the acting out of a 'rape' scene.

Forced Smoking

(3) Forcing the submissive to smoke (usually cigarettes); however, other various types of smoking are used in heavy S/m play.

(c) Forcing the submissive to smoke excessively in a short time. Can be used as a punishment. Sometimes used as an aversion therapy when forcing the submissive to quit smoking altogether.

Forniphillia

(2) Literally, Latin fornire furniture + Greek philos love):
(2) a specific type of bondage combined with utility D/s in which a person is bound and immobilized, and then used as furniture, such as a table or footrest.

Fountain of Venus; Colloquial

(2) Water sports involving urination by a woman.

(4) Water sports involving urination by a woman.

Free-balling

(w) male Not wearing underpants under outer clothing.
(w) American slang going commando.
(w) Related free-buffing for females.

Freeplay

(2) BDSM activities in which there is no domination or submission.
(2) See related top, bottom, sensation play.

(4) BDSM activities in which there is no domination or submission.

French; also, French Kissing

(4) Any kissing that involves open mouths, tongues, and swapping spit. Also, occasionally used as a 'code-word' for cunnilingus (licking pussies) and fellatio (sucking cocks).

Frog Tie

(2) A specific form of bondage in which the person kneels and the ankles are bound to the thighs, preventing the person from rising; the wrists are then bound to the ankles.

(4) A specific form of bondage in which the person kneels and ankles are bound to the thighs, preventing the person from rising. The wrists are then bound to the ankles.

Frottage

(8) Rubbing one's body against a partner or object for arousal. The act of rubbing against the body of another person, as in a crowd, to attain sexual gratification.

FtM / F2M; also MtF / M2F

(6) abbr. : female-to-male transgender or transsexual person; male-to-female transgender or transsexual person.

(c) also (pending) MtF / M2F

Fuck; noun, verb

(8) The Anglo-Saxon synonym for sexual intercourse, coition, or copulation (all Latin-derived). To copulate and to fuck are the only one-word verbs for mutual genital intercourse. The former is too stilted for vernacular use. The latter, being tabooed as dirty, is often replaced by euphemisms like to screw or to ball.

(c) also, the George Carlin's routine Usage Of The Word Fuck on youtube.

Fucking Machine

(2) Any device or machine which is designed to simulate the act of sex; often consisting of a dildo affixed to a reciprocating motor to thrust in and out of a person. Many varieties of fucking machines exist, some designed so that the subject straddles or sits on them, others designed to be used when the subject is prone or spreadeagle.

(4) Any device or machine, which is designed to simulate the act of, sex e.g. silicon vagina used for men, etc.

Full-Head Hoods

(3) A flexible covering for the head and sometimes neck. These come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and textures. Worn to prevent the sense of sight for erotic purposes.
(3) See also: Blindfolds.

Funnel Gag

(2) A gag, usually consisting of an oblong or penis-shaped rubber or plastic bit, which has a tube running through it connected to a funnel. When the gag is placed in the mouth, any liquids introduced into the tube will pass into the mouth, and the person wearing the gag has no choice but to swallow them.

(4) A gag, usually consisting of an oblong or penis-shaped rubber or plastic bit, which has a tube running through it, connected to a funnel. When the gag is placed in the mouth, any liquids introduced into the tube will pass into the mouth, and the person wearing the gag has no choice but to swallow them.

(c) High Risk: Chocking hazard.

Furniture (slang)

(1) Large pieces of equipment, usually at BDSM clubs. This includes, but is not limited to, the legendary St. Andrews Cross, spanking benches, cages, and a myriad of bondage equipment.

(c) Usually, but not exclusively at BDSM clubs, i.e., Better Homes and Dungeons.

Furry Yiff

(9) Dressing up in furry animal costumes itself isn’t considered sexual, but if you DO have sex while in costume, it’s not just “furry”.

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