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- List Category: Sex
- Lacing
- (2) To connect temporary (or permanent) piercing together with a small chain or thread.
- (11) To connect temporary (or permanent) piercing together with a small chain or thread.
- Lacing Table
- (2) A table or other flat, horizontal table-like object specifically designed for lacing, usually consisting of two or more rows of eyehooks affixed to the table in such a way that a person lying between the rows of eyehooks can be restrained to the table by a rope or cord that is laced back and forth between the eyehooks.
- (4) The practice of extreme corsetry as a form of body modification. It can also mean the specific and unusual type of bondage done by suturing a part of the body to or around a fixed object.
- Lactation
- (9) When you get off on women with milk-producing breasts (usually drinking).
- Ladder
- (2) A structure consisting of either a triangular wooden frame with wooden slats running across it or two vertical wooden planks with several horizontal cross members, to which a person can be bound.
- (4) A structure consisting of either a triangular wooden frame with wooden slats running across it or two vertical wooden planks with several horizontal cross members, to which a person can be bound.
- Lap Dancing
- (8) Squatting above a sitting person and rubbing against them to create arousal without touching their genitals.
- Lash
- (2) Descriptive of any kind of whip.
- (4) Any long, flexible implement, often made of leather or cord, used to strike a person.
- Latex
- (2) A type of rubber used in the manufacturing of items used to protect against disease or bodily fluid transmission like gloves, condoms, and dental dams. Latex is also a fetish item to some people who enjoy wearing latex clothing or using liquid latex in a scene.
- (4) A clinging, shiny fabric and is the subject of a significant fetish with many devotees.
- (11) A type of rubber used in the manufacturing of items used to protect against disease or bodily fluid transmission like gloves, condoms, and dental dams. Latex is also a fetish item to some people who enjoy wearing latex clothing or using liquid latex in a scene.
- Leather
- (2) A term used as a euphemism for SM; a material made from the tanned skins of animals that over the years has become associated with persons who practice SM as well as motorcycle organizations. Leather is also a popular fetish item.
- (3) Material made from the cured skin of animals. Wearing leather is a popular sexual fetish. Leather, especially the wearing of black leather gives the wearer a certain sense of power and is commonly worn in the BDSM scene by the Dominant. Used for making floggers. whips, etc.
- (4) One of the most basic and widely known fetishes in the BDSM scene. Leather skirts, leather chaps, leather harnesses, leather cuffs, leather paddles, the list is endless.
- (10) The Leather Subculture typically includes both a style of dress and an affiliation with BDSM practice. Both the style of dress and the kinds of BDSM activities characteristic of a community may differ between gay, lesbian, and straight communities, and between Old Guard and newer generations of players. While most people who engage in the leather culture style of dress are also affiliated with BDSM practice, not all BDSM practitioners wear leather culture apparel.
The leather community has been considered a subset of BDSM culture rather than a direct descendant of gay culture as a whole, despite the fact that in years past much of the organized SM community was, in fact, homosexual. Today, while some may still use the term strictly in the old-fashioned sense (confusing it with old guard), the "leather community" or "leather culture" can include all practitioners whether gay, lesbian, straight, bisexual, or pansexual; and high or low protocol.- From: www.seekdiscipline.com
- (11) A term used as a euphemism for SM; a material made from the tanned skins of animals that over the years has become associated with persons who practice SM as well as motorcycle organizations. Leather is also a popular fetish item.
- Leather Bar
- (2) A drinking establishment catering to the BDSM community, often specifically to the old leather community, which may have strict dress codes for entrance.
- (4) A drinking establishment catering to the BDSM community, and usually have strict dress codes for entrance.
- Leather Butt; Colloquial
- (2) A condition where prolonged, repeated stimulation of a particular part of a person's body, most often pain play involving paddling or striking to leave deep bruises, makes that part of the body less sensitive. Usage: Used generically, not necessarily only to describe one's butt.
- (4) A condition where prolonged, repeated stimulation of a particular part of a person’s body, most often pain play involving paddling, caning, or striking, to leave that part of the body less sensitive.
- Leather family
- (10) A small community of people into BDSM or D/s or Leather whose bonds often mimic that of a birth family. A leather family often has a "Head of Family", and some sort of hierarchy between members. A D/s household provides an alternative model.
- From: www.seekdiscipline.com
- Leg Irons
- (2) A set of locking cuffs, often made of iron fastened together with rivets, with a length of chain about a foot long between them. Designed to be locked around the legs or ankles in such a way that the bound person can still walk, in a slow, shuffling gait, but cannot run. May also include additional chains designed to be affixed to a belt and cuffs fastened about the wrists. Leg irons that attach specifically to the ankles or feet are also called fetters.
- (4) A set of locking cuffs, made of iron, fastened together with rivets, with a length of chain about a foot long between them. Designed to be locked around the ankles in such a way that the bound person can still walk, in a slow, shuffling gait, but cannot run.
- Leg Stretcher; also Leg Spreader
- (2) See spreader bar.
- Lesbian
- (6) noun & adj.: women who are primarily attracted romantically, erotically, and/or emotionally to other women.
- (8) A woman who prefers to have sex with other women.
- LGBTQ; GSM; DSG; TGNC
- (6) abbr .: shorthand or umbrella terms for all folks who have a non-normative (or queer) gender or sexuality, there are many different initialisms people prefer.
- LGBTQ is Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender and Queer and/or Questioning (sometimes people at a + at the end to be more inclusive);
- GSM is Gender and Sexual Minorities;
- DSG is Diverse Sexualities and Genders;
- TGNC is Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming (sometimes you’ll see “NB” added for non-binary).
- Licking
- (3) Play involving the "licking" of various body parts.
(3) See also: Cock Worship, Foot Worship, Pussy Worship.
- Lifestyle
- (2) 1. Colloquial; often "the lifestyle" Of or pertaining to involvement in BDSM, as in How long have you been in the lifestyle?
(2) 2. Of or pertaining to a TPE relationship, as in We practice lifestyle D/s. - (7) The manner and way a person lives, based on community, social, and/or personal beliefs.
- Lifestylers (slang)
- (1) Those in the BDSM lifestyle – whether weekend warriors or 24/7 players.
- (4) A term used to describe a person who lives a lifestyle, which supports their BDSM inclinations. Sometimes a person who hangs out a lot at BDSM clubs or parties will call himself a 'lifestyler' but others only consider themselves 'lifestylers' if they 'stay in role' as dominant or submissive, master or slave, not just for a night out at a club but full-time, 24- hours a day, seven days a week (or 24/7 as its often called).
- Limit; pl Limits
- (1) The point beyond which a submissive does not allow the Dominant to go; usually stated before play. It can be a “soft limit,” which can change over time. Or a “hard limit,” which is more or less written in stone. For example, a submissive might say, “Nipple clamps are my soft limit.” Or, “Knife play is my hard limit.”
- (2) A set of personal guidelines and boundaries an individual has in regards to the type of play and/or BDSM activities he or she does not wish to experience or partake in. These include anything that can cause mental, physical, or emotional distress to the individual. Some people have two different sets of limits; soft limits, which are limits that are scary for the person to imagine but are not totally out of the realm of possibility, and Hard Limits, which are things that the person does not ever wish to experience or explore.
- (4) The boundaries of BDSM activities that we are unwilling to cross, things we don't want to do, and places we don't want to go.
- (7) The amount and or intensity of pain or play or types of fetish that a submissive believes he can handle and enjoy.
- (11) A set of personal guidelines and boundaries an individual has in regards to the type of play and/or BDsM activities he or she does not wish to experience or partake in. These include anything that can cause mental, physical, or emotional distress to the individual. Some people have two different sets of limits; soft limits, which are limits that are scary for the person to imagine but are not totally out of the realm of possibility, and Hard Limits, which are things that the person does not ever wish to experience or explore.
- Lingerie
- (3) Women's intimate apparel.
(3) Examples: Lace bodices, stockings, bras, panties, etc.
- Lipstick Lesbian
- (6) noun: Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is assumed to be (or passes for) straight.
- Little; Colloquial
- (2) One who takes the role of a submissive younger person in age play.
(2) Usage: Used as a noun; as, Bob is a little. - (4) One who takes the role of a submissive younger person in age play.
- Little Play; Colloquial
- (2) See age play.d
- Live-In Slave
- (4) A 'lifestyle' submissive who lives with, and serves, a master or mistress on a full-time basis.
- Long Hair
- (9) Turned on by long, beautiful locks.
- Loud Sex
- (9) Yep, getting off knowing other people can hear you having sex.
- Low-hangers
- (2) A scrotum sack that has been stretched significantly causing the testicles to hang.
- (11) A scrotum sack that has been stretched significantly causing the testicles to hang.
- Lubricant; Also: Lube
- (2) An artificial substance to lessen friction during penetration. Water-soluble products are recommended to avoid risks to protective barriers and the possibility of vaginal infection.
- (11) An artificial substance to lessen friction during penetration. Water-soluble products are recommended to avoid risks to protective barriers and the possibility of vaginal infection.
- (c) Lube should also be used in ass play, i.e., anal intercourse, especially for fisting and fist punching.
- Lunge Whip
- (2) A specific type of whip consisting of a handle attached to a long, flexible shaft, often made of fiberglass and typically about 65" long or so, with a single long, narrow lash. Lunge whips often telescope or disassemble for easy storage.
- (4) A specific type of whip consisting of a handle attached to a long, flexible shaft, often made of fiberglass and typically 65 inches long, with a single long, narrow lash.
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