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• List Category: Sex

Kajir

(2) In the Gor novels, a female sex slave.

Kajira

(4) A Gorean female slavegirl, not to be confused with a Kajirus who is her male counterpart or a Kajuralia, which is a festival in which Gorean slaves trade places with their masters and have the freedom to play tricks on free persons. All of these terms come from the fantasy world of Gor (the counter-earth) created in the novels of John Norman.

Kami

(2) In shibari, any technique or tie that involves the hair, such as by weaving ropes through the hair to hold the head immobile.

Kamikaze

(2) A submissive who intentionally seeks out possibly dangerous partners or participates in unsafe activities. This type of person is highly looked down upon in the SM community.

(11) A submissive who intentionally seeks out possibly dangerous partners or participates in unsafe activities. This type of person is highly looked down upon in the SM community.

Karada

(2) A rope harness, originating in Japan, that is tied around the torso in a series of diamond-shaped patterns. Often used as a foundation in shibari. The karada does not restrain the subject, and can even be worn under clothing.

(4) A rope harness, originating in Japan, that is tied around the torso in a series of diamond-shaped patterns. Often used as a foundation in shibari. The karada does not restrain the person and can be worn under clothing.

Kegel Exercises

(8) Exercise of the pelvic muscles that control orgasm.

Kennel Play

(2) A specific form of puppy play in which the submissive is confined to a kennel or doghouse as part of the play.
(2) See related animalism.

(4) A specific form of puppy play in which the submissive is confined to a kennel or doghouse as part of the play.

Keyword

(2) Another name for a safeword.

(11) Another name for a safeword.
(11) See also Safeword

Kidnapping

(3) Term meaning to seize, detain, or carry away by unlawful force. Some players in the BDSM scene have fantasies regarding kidnapping and may ask for a scene involving some sort of "play kidnapping". This form of play requires aftercare and is classified as illegal in many areas.

Kinbaku

(2) See shibari.
(2) Usage: Most technically, shibari is the act of tying, and kinbaku is artistic bondage. In general use, however, shibari and kinbaku are often used as synonyms.

(4) Originating in Japan, and denotes artistic bondage.

Kotori

(2) A rope harness intended to support a person's weight from the torso and upper legs, used for suspension in shibari.

Kneeling

(3) To be used as a form of "respect" toward the Dominant. Making the submissive kneel when the Dominant enters the room, during scening, in public, etc. A punishment form of kneeling is where the submissive is kneeling in a different position than for *offering* [themself].

Knee Pillory; also, Kneeling Pillory, Kneeling Stock

(2) A stock on a very short frame, such that a person may be restrained by kneeling in front of the stock and then bending over. The top of the stock is then closed around the person's kneck and wrists, restraining him or her in a kneeling position.

Knife Play

(2) The use of a knife or other bladed object in a scene. Cutting may or may not be part of a knife play scene. Most of these types of scenes involve light scratching of the skin with the blade or the use of the knife to achieve physiological effects... yes, fear is a good thing.

Cutting the surface of the skin with sharp objects, generally a knife, for the thrill, sensation, or pain. To also create decorative scars. The same basic precautions apply as with other types of blood play.
(3) Remember: Stay away from vital organ areas and genital cutting.
(3) See also: Abrasion, Branding, Castration Fantasy, Cutting.

(4) Doesn't necessarily involve cutting although it might. Knives are pretty scary things

(9) Using knives or sharp objects. Can be sensory or a “threat” roleplay (E).

(11) The use of a knife or other bladed object in a scene. Cutting may or may not be part of a knife play scene. Most of these scenes involve light scratching of the skin with the blade or the use of the knife to achieve physiological effects... yes, fear is a good thing.

(c) High Risk, not safe for beginners.

Knismolagnia

(9) Arousal through tickling.

Knout

(2) A specific type of whip with multiple lashes made of wire or of leather thongs twisted with wire and usually knotted.

(4) A specific type of whip with multiple lashes made of wire and usually knotted.

Kotori

(4) A rope harness intended to support a person’s weight from the torso and upper legs. Used for suspension in shibari.

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