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Group 4: BDSM Kinks & Fetishes Checklist

Webform Specifications

08 December 2025

Introduction: Use the checklist below to learn more about kinks and fetishes and see which appeal to you.

The results of your selections will be emailed to you so that you can keep them on record to compare notes with your partner.

Instructions: Below you will find a comprehensive list of kinks & fetishes, ranging from the common to the bizarre.

Spend time looking at each of the kinks & fetishes listed below, selecting those that appeal to you, and rating them according to the dropdowns. If you feel neutral about a kink or fetish, simply leave all three dropdown fields blank. You need only select dropdowns on the fetishes you feel strongly for or against.

Example: Abandonment: Being aroused by the idea and/or act of being left behind, abandoned, forgotten, or thrown away. I am into Abandonment. Abandonment is something I am willing to do. I am into receiving Abandonment. [Mark Green]

Your Email Address(*): [em 1]
Your Partner's Email Address: [em 2]
Your primary role is (*): [role 1] Optional
Your Partner's primary role is: [role 2] Optional
Drop Down 1 (role 1 and role 2) Optional

• Top, Master, Mistress, Sir, Madam, Coach, Patriarch, Dom / Dominate, Dominatrix, Owner, Boss, Dad (Daddy), Bear, Teacher, Trainer, Handler, and Otter.
• Bottom, submissive, slave, sub, property, boy, subordinate, son, bear cub, athlete, student, and human-animal (i.e., human-canine, human-equine, human-feline, otter pup, and whelp).

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Drop Down 2

• I am into xxx
  • mark green
• I am strongly against xxx
  • mark red

Drop Down 3

0. xxx is something I'll never do; it is a hard limit for me
   • Mandatory option when "I am strongly against xxx” is selected
1. xxx is something I'll do under strict orders
2. xxx is something I'll do under orders
3. xxx is something I am willing to do
4. xxx is something I really want to do
5. xxx is something I cannot live without; it is a requirement for me

Drop Down 4

• Mandatory to omit when "I am strongly against xxx” is selected
• I am into giving xxx
• I am into receiving xxx
• I am into both giving and receiving xxx

Interests

1. Abandonment: Being aroused by the idea and/or act of being left behind, abandoned, forgotten, or thrown away.
2. Acrophilia: Being aroused from heights, in and of themselves, and/or being aroused by sexual or sensual activities at unusual heights.
3. Acrotomophilia: Being aroused by amputees. This fetish may or may not involve sexual or sensual activity specifically related to the amputated area.
4. Adult Movies: Being aroused by watching adult movies.
5. Agalmatophilia: Being aroused by statues. This fetish may or may not involve actual sexual acts with statues.
6. Barosmia: Being aroused by smells.
7. Being Recorded: Being aroused by having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act.
8. Bestiality: Being aroused by sex with animals.
   
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9. Boot Worship: Being aroused by worshiping the boots of another person.
10. Branding: Burning the body, often with a specific design, aiming to leave a permanent mark or scar.
11. Brown Showers: Being defecated on by another person.
12. Catheterization: Inserting a tube in to the urethra to collect urine.
13. Chamber Pots: Receptacles used for the collection of urine and faecal matter. (Similar to a "Bed Pan," these pots were used historically in place of indoor plumbing.)
14. Cock Rings: Putting a ring or having a ring put, usually made of metal or rubber, around the base of a partner's cock. "Cock Rings" are often used for increased sensation and erection-duration during sex.
15. Corsets: Wearing corsets to control the shape of the waist and hips.
16. Cross Dressing: Dressing yourself, dressing a partner or being dressed to resemble a member of the opposite sex, most usually male to female.
17. Forced Homosexuality: Engaging in sexual activities with members of the same sex, usually against your will to some degree.
    
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18. Diapers: Wearing diapers.
19. Dirty Sex: Sexual activity in and around dirt, mud, or oil. Warning: Use only food grade oils; motor oil has carcinogenics.
20. Douching: Using a "Douche," which is a device inserted into the vagina or anus that squirts a liquid, often saline, for the purposes of cleansing.
21. Enemas: Being given or giving an "Enema" - injecting liquid into the intestine by way of the anus, often for the purposes of cleansing.
22. Exotic Dancing, AKA> Erotic Dancing, Lap Dancing: Being aroused by erotic or sensual dance, or strip tease.
23. Examination: Having your body physically examined and, often, appraised; includes medical examination roleplay.
24. Exhibitionism: Enjoying the idea and/or act of being seen in a sexual or sensual context. Some exhibitionists wish to be seen by non-consensual viewers, and some prefer only consensual viewers.
25. Fear: Being aroused by fear.
    
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26. Food Play: Being aroused by the use of food in sexual activities.
27. Foot Worship: Worshiping the feet of another person.
28. Golden Showers, AKA Yellow Showers: Being urinated on by another person.
29. Gun Play: Scenes that involve the use of guns as props.
30. High Heel Worship: Worshiping the high-heeled shoes of another person.
31. Infantilism: Treating a partner as an infant or being treated as an infant. "Infantilism" is an extreme form of "Age Play" and can include anything from role playing and dress up to diaper wearing and usage.
32. Knife Play: A form of consensual BDSM edge play involving knives, daggers, and swords as a source of physical and mental stimulation.
33. Latex: Clothing made out of, or involving rubber or latex.
    
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34. Leather: Clothing made out of, or involving leather.
35. Lingerie: Women's lingerie.
36. Medical Instruments: Using medical instruments in play.
37. Needles: Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using needles on the body, either scratching with them, or using them to create elaborate designs and patterns.
38. Oral/Anal Play: Engaging in sexual activity in which a partner uses his/her mouth to stimulate and arouse your anus and/or surrounding areas.
39. Pain: Acts involving physical pain.
40. Prostitution: The subject takes on and acts out a role, real or roleplay, based on being a male or female prostitute, selling themselves to another person for sex.
41. Rape Fantasy: Being sexually used or taken against your will in a roleplaying situation that ends in rape.
    
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42. Sensory Deprivation: Having the amount of sensory input you're exposed to blocked or limited, eg. blindfolds, earplugs, etc.
43. Shaving: Removing all traces of bodily hair through shaving.
44. Speculums: A medical device used to spread and dilate the vagina or anus.
45. Swallowing: Swallowing semen.
46. Tattoos: Adorning the body permanently with tattoos.
47. Tickling: Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by tickling.
48. Uniforms: Wearing uniforms such as policeman, fireman or school girl.
49. Voyeurism: Watching someone, often without their knowledge, in a situation with sexual connotations. For example, watching someone undressing or having sex.

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