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The Slave...
One of the aspects of D/s that I find the most significant to me personally is the healing and transcendent aspect. I suppose I approach my submissive with a different mindset than most people. Sub-space is a form of involuntary hypnosis. It is triggered through many avenues in the mind. As the submissive learns to trust the dominant, the interior walls of resistance relax, and the submissive can delve deeper within themselves, knowing that their dominant will catch them or allow no harm to come to them while in this state. This is the primary reason why I never play casually.
Learning the nuances of a submissive is a lengthy and time-consuming process. It is to see, evaluate, and feel the ways of their physicality. It is to read, sense, and understand the pathways of their psyche. Trust must be VERY deep for a submissive to truly experience the depths of their own impassioned responses. The dominant by learning the intimate fantasies of their slave can utilize these tools to open the spirit doors inside them. D/s allows us to challenge the fears, desires, and edges creatively and lovingly. When I watch total physical and mental release, there is ecstasy inside of me. Knowing my nature summons that within another human connects me in a way nothing else can.
I am a naturally creative person, and I love the incumbent aspects of having a true and completely functional dungeon. I have watched the extreme excitement of a slave as they are led within the chamber, knowing they will be forced to experience whatever I desire. The duality of voluntarily submitting and the subsequent removal of that submission by the dominant through bondage are all necessary to bring total joy within them.
A true slave wants, needs, and desires to be treated as a full slave. To kneel between his Mistress's legs to be fed by hand, to be collared and chained or caged to await his Mistress's attention. To know that his body excites her, that training his body to accept pain excites her. To know that controlling his release, his pleasure arouses her. It is to be owned in a truly fundamental way. There can be excitement in being handled like a lower beast, in being displayed before others as a piece of exquisite property, to know the feel, the burn of being spanked with frequency, being trained to offer and present for usage. This fulfills the heart cravings of a true male slave.
A submissive must offer to be forcibly taken. A submissive is a volunteer; a slave is not. To become a slave, a man must offer submission. His choice vanishes once he submits to the collar. In that moment, he gives over the essence of himself into the trust of another. Submission becomes not a choice he makes but an expression of himself that is completely natural. The slave emerges whole and free, knowing they are no longer responsible for directing action; they are solely responsible for obeying direction.
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