Sub Space

Sub Space

Subspace:

This term generally is used to describe a moderate to deep trancelike condition experienced by persons in the submissive position in a D/s relationship during interaction with the person in the Dominant position in the relationship.

TOP SPACE:

I will start by regarding top space or normal space. This is operational ground zero. The submissive in top space often appears quite aggressive, assertive, and dominant. They will be hustling their children off to school, dominating their Dominant mate by organizing him/her off to work, cleaning and straightening the house, sending themselves off to work or to take care of business. They are the Commander of the ship, the General of the Army. Hustle, hustle, hustle. This is a submissive's TOP SPACE.

MARGINALLY DOWN SPACE:

This space occurs when the Dominant in the relationship directs attention at the submissive. This may be a glance, a light touch, a small sound, or any combination of these triggers. This marginal appearing contact drops the submissive out of top space into a state of waiting and/or listening for command. She stops. Generally, she will cease talking even in the midst of a comment. She may stop moving. She will generally attempt direct eye contact with her Dominant to see if he/she has a direction or command for her. If nothing further occurs, she will most likely re-top. Or, go back to full functional top space. If the Dominant mentally presses...she will generally descend further into space.

SPRITE SPACE:

Some submissives will squirm and utterly deny that this space exists. They will swear to you that they don't have it, it doesn't exist, and they would never perpetrate mischief. Hmmm. Essentially, just under or into down space, there is a space where the submissive will test the Dominant's attention, desire, and will to control her. She may unclip cuffs, slide out of assigned position - all in total innocence. She didn't hear that command, the blindfold muffled her ears...etc... Note: If she notes that the Dominant doesn't catch her action, she will feel he isn't paying her attention, therefore doesn't love her (mind of women at work).

BLONDE SPACE:

Now, as the submissive descends into space, her IQ tends to diminish progressively. Many submissives will tell you that their up person is off to the side watching everything. They will feel themselves getting slower mentally. I call this blonde space . In blonde space, the submissive has trouble with rational thought. If you ask her if something is uncomfortable, she is likely to say "I dunno". The truth is - she doesn't know. At this point, she is not capable of distinguishing danger to herself; she cannot and will not utilize any safeword - it becomes incomprehensible to her. In her mind, she has you, the Dominant; she loves and trusts you, and you won't let anything happen to her.

SUB-VOCAL or PRIMAL SPACE:

Sometimes the Dominant and the submissive penetrate what I call the sub-vocal barrier. The submissive in this space loses her submissive nature. If you intend to take her, have her well tied. As she drops through into this deep space, she can and will get feral. Her voice may become primal grunts and sounds, her eyes may alter, and she will be hypersensitive to sound, light, and movement. She will be fast and very dangerous. She can and will claw you, bite you, or toss you into a wall if you are a small man. In a sense, she is tapping into ancient primal body language. She becomes a predator, barely submitting. If she senses any weakness in your control, she will attempt to take you out. She cannot ever utilize safe words here. She cannot remember how to articulate human speech.

These are the basic levels of subspace. Before beginning an exploration of subspace, the Dominant and submissive should have intensive conversations about what she may expect and how she may feel. The Dominant should set up a sequence of escape words. This should be a simple question that would never occur in common life. Something such as "What color is your left big toe?" Her auto-UP UP UP response might be "My left big toe is orange!" Essentially, this question asked at any time is her command to fast up or come to TOP SPACE NOW!!!

This escape question should be practiced multiple times until it becomes automatic.

I included the for a very important reason...submissives in down space seldom laugh. Their ability to laugh and giggle seems to diminish as their focus intensifies on their Dominant in space. By requiring the as well, the Dominant is assured that the submissive has returned to top space. Note: this command should only be used in a problem situation. For regular activities in subspace, the submissive needs and desires to be 'caught' by the Dominant gently and allowed to return to top space in a normal way...this can take hours of after-play cuddling.

Some basic information: Never leave your submissive alone in space unless you wish to risk severe potential problems... You are her sole connection to reality. If you leave her alone, she is likely to be terrified. She will return to the top space at some point and may never forgive you for leaving her.

Always keep your commands simple and direct. In space, she will obey, but comprehension is limited. Never impose responsibility on her for any aspect of the play. If you want interaction, stay in Marginal Space or Sprite Space (sometimes known as Sammy Space). In any other down space, she will not communicate well verbally. She may be unable to articulate your name at all.

Reassuringly talk to her if penetration of subspace is new - she may be frightened. The further into space she goes, the higher the chems pump into her bloodstream, and generally the more intense the play can become. For a first timer, you need to tell her that subspace exists, what it is, and how it may feel to her. She will desire to please you and be open to seeking this space. She must feel that you know what you are doing, even if you do not. She must be convinced that she is utterly safe with you.

Penetration of the different levels will vary for many reasons. Some people can only go so far. They have inhibitors. Often, the penetration may occur over many months as the level of trust increases and the submissive relaxes into new experiences. You should not expect a full flight from the beginning.

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