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Wannabe

(2) Someone who thinks or claims to be knowledgeable about BDSM, but is not. Especially prevalent with new dominants.

(4) A disparaging term for a person, usually a self-identified dominant, who is inexperienced yet, assumes knowledge or experience far exceeding his or her actual degree of expertise.

Want

(10) Wants are desires of a submissive (or dominant) which can go unmet without harm. This is in contrast to needs which cannot, by definition, go unmet over time without harm. The article about needs has more about this distinction.

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Wartenberg Wheel; alternatively spelled as Wurtenburg Wheel

(2) A small implement consisting of a short handle to which is affixed a small wheel with several sharp needle-like projections around its outer edge. Used by neurologists to test nerve function in the skin and by people in the BDSM community for sensation play.

(4) A device for pricking people, originally used by doctors to test nerve responses. It consists of a metal handle with a free-spinning, metal pinwheel attached to one end. The 'pins' are generally sharp enough to feel 'prickly' but aren't intended to break the skin. Holding the handle in your hand you roll the wheel over a person's skin, creating the sensation of countless tiny pinpricks.

Water Sports; also, W/S, Watersports

(2) Erotic acts involving urine.

(4) Pissing on your partner or having them piss on you. Also called 'golden showers'

(7) Sexual activity involving urine and or enemas.

(8) Generally considered to be play involving human urine, ie., Golden Showers. A term generally used to describe the eroticization of games having to do with urination and/or defecation, and occasionally enema play.

(9) Playing with urine (E).

(c) Moderate Risk
(c) Brown, Golden, Pearl, Roman, Yellow

Water Torture

(3) A form of "torture" involving water. After-care is extremely important. Derived from the Chinese (i.e., Chinese Water Torture).
(3) Example: Laying the submissive face up while dripping water on the forehead for extended periods of time.

Wax Play; also, Wax Torture

(2) The top drips hot wax on the bottom.

(4) Activity that involves dripping hot candle wax onto the skin of a submissive. Soft, plain white candles are safest. Avoid colored or beeswax candles, which have a higher melting point and can burn.

(9) Play with dripping hot wax on the skin.

Waxing

(3) Using warmed wax as a form of erotic sensation. Common areas of waxing are the buttocks, breast area, back, etc. The process of using hot wax in scening. The wax most commonly used is candles.
(3) Note: Some types of wax, beeswax, for instance, tend to become extremely hot during burning and should always be done carefully to prevent permanent burning/scarring of the skin.
(3) See also: Hot Wax.

(c) Not to be confused with waxing for hair removal.

Weights

(2) Often attached to the penis, testicles, or nipples to stretch them.

(3) Used to extend or pull, by pressure. Vaginal weights are used on labia, for example, pull the labia to stretch, for play or punishment depending on the amount of weight used.

(4) Sometimes added to clamps attached to nipples or genitals to increase the sensation. They can be custom made or improvised, for example, the lead weights used for fishing.

(c) Additionally, weights can be used on the nipples, on the scrotum (known as "ball stretching"), on the penis, on the lips, and the ear lobes.

Werewolf Play

(9) Same as vampire play but with werewolves.

Wheel

(2) A free-spinning wheel to which the submissive is tied and rotated around. Sometimes called the Catherine Wheel.

(c) Also Saint Catherine Wheel or St Catherine Wheel

Whip; pl., Whips

(2) An implement used for striking people, consisting of one or more lashes (often made of leather or some stiff material wrapped or braided in leather) affixed to a handle. 2. Any of a class of knots made by wrapping one part of a rope repeatedly around itself or another rope.
(2) Also, verb 1. To strike with a whip, flogger, or similar object.
(2) 2. To strike repeatedly and rapidly.
(2) 3. Uncommon: To tie using a whip knot.
(2) 4. To trim the end of a rope by means of a whip knot, to prevent the rope from fraying.
(2) See also singletail, bullwhip, signal whip, quirt, lunge whip.

(4) These fall broadly into two main groups. The first includes all single-thonged whips, such as blacksnake whips, buggy whips, and bullwhips. They range in size from around 3 -12 feet. All will produce an intense burning sensation while the larger ones if used injudiciously, can cut the skin like a knife. The second main group is the multi-thonged whips, which includes a wide range of implements like the cat 'o' nine tails, two-tailed quirts, and other softer 'floggers'.

Whipping

(2) The act of administering erotic pain to a submissive using a flogger, cane, crop, single-tail, cat-o-nine, or other flexible instruments.

(3) A device consisting of a long, flexible striking surface. Whipping the body with a whip-type device is a form of punishment.
(3) See also: Caning, Flogger, Strapping.

(7) Administering erotic pain by using flexible instruments such as flogger, cat-o-nine tails, riding crop and cane to strike the submissive’s body.

(8) Striking or flagellating a partner for sensory enhancement.

Whipping Post

(2) A fixed upright post, often made of wood and secured at the base to be immobile, to which a person may be bound and then whipped or flogged.

(3) Designs vary according to a builder, but the principle is to have a tall post with tethers that hang down, to attach a person from their wrists.
(3) Usage: Positioning a submissive for ease of whipping. Some Dominants use the “whipping post” for punishment only, and never for play.

(4) A fixed upright post, often made of wood and secured at the base so as to be immobile, to which a person may be bound and whipped and flogged.

White Room

(2) As an addition to a dungeon, where medical and clinical games are played.

WIITWD

(2) What it is that we do. A broad term referring to all forms of alternative sexuality.

(4) An acronym meaning “what it is that we do” – a shorthand for the entire spectrum of BDSM-related activities.

Wooden Horse

(2) An implement consisting of a wooden plank supported edgewise between two upright fixed posts, or of two sheets of wood coming together at a sharp angle with the edge facing up, to which a female submissive is bound with her legs off the floor. The submissive is bound in such a way she straddles the plank or the point of the triangle, causing her entire body weight to rest on her clitoris. Some wooden horses include an integrated dildo that penetrates the person affixed to it

(4) An implement consisting of a wooden plank supported edgewise between two upright fixed posts, or of two sheets of wood coming together at a sharp angle with the edge facing up, to which a female submissive is bound with her legs off the floor. The submissive is bound in such a way that she straddles the plank or the point of the triangle, causing her entire body weight to rest on her clitoris. Some wooden horses included an integrated dildo for penetration.

Wooden Pony

(2) An implement consisting of a wooden plank supported edgewise between two upright fixed posts, which a female submissive straddles and is bound in place. The plank is at such a height that the submissive's weight is not borne by the plank so long as she remains standing on tiptoes; as her legs tire, she will eventually have no choice but to lower herself onto the edge of the plank, which is extremely painful.

(4) An implement consisting of a wooden plank supported edgewise between two upright fixed posts, which a submissive straddles and is bound in place. The plank is at such a height that the submissive’s weight is not borne by the plank so long as she remains on her toes.

Worship

(2) To kiss, lick, suck, or otherwise show adoration of a body part or object belonging to the Dominant. The word itself is used as a command to direct a submissive to perform acts of worship on an object or body part.

Wrapping

(2) Used to describe when a whip stroke strikes along the side of the body or other area outside of the 'safe zone'. This is usually a reflection of lack of skill or carelessness on the part of the Dominant. It can also be caused by a jumpy submissive... moving targets are tricky.

Wrestling

(9) Play fighting for body contact and power control.

Wurtenburg; alternate spelling for Wartenberg

(2) The wurtenburg wheel is a medical device used in neurological testing that is a popular SM toy due to its versatility, safety, and ease of use. Its small spikes can give sensations ranging from erotic to annoying.

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