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Group 2: BDSM Power Play Checklist

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07 December 2025

Introduction: Power Play takes place in Dominant/submissive or Master/slave relationships. Use the checklist below to learn more about BDSM Power Play activities and see which appeal to you. Instructions: Below you will find a comprehensive list of power play activities, ranging from the common to the bizarre. 

Take a moment to review each of the activities listed below, selecting those that appeal to you, and rate them according to the dropdown options. If you feel neutral about an activity, simply leave all three dropdown fields blank. You need only select the dropdowns on the activities you feel strongly for or against.

Example: Begging: Activities and behaviors where the submissive partner is required to ask earnestly and humbly to be allowed certain privileges, or access to certain amenities. I am into Begging. Begging is something I am willing to do. I am into receiving Begging. [Mark Green]

Your Email Address(*): [em 1]
Your Partner's Email Address: [em 2]
Your primary role is (*): [role 1] Optional
Your Partner's primary role is: [role 2] Optional
Drop Down 1 (role 1 and role 2) Optional

• Top, Master, Mistress, Sir, Madam, Coach, Patriarch, Dom / Dominate, Dominatrix, Owner, Boss, Dad (Daddy), Bear, Teacher, Trainer, Handler, and Otter.
• Bottom, submissive, slave, sub, property, boy, subordinate, son, bear cub, athlete, student, and human-animal (i.e., human-canine, human-equine, human-feline, otter pup, and whelp).

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Drop Down 2

• I am into xxx
  • mark green
• I am strongly against xxx
  • mark red

Drop Down 3

0. xxx is something I'll never do; it is a hard limit for me
   • Mandatory option when "I am strongly against xxx” is selected
1. xxx is something I'll do under strict orders
2. xxx is something I'll do under orders
3. xxx is something I am willing to do
4. xxx is something I really want to do
5. xxx is something I cannot live without; it is a requirement for me

Drop Down 4

• Mandatory to omit when "I am strongly against xxx” is selected
• I am into giving xxx
• I am into receiving xxx
• I am into both giving and receiving xxx

Interests

1. Begging: Activities and behaviors where the submissive partner is required to ask earnestly and humbly to be allowed certain privileges, or access to certain amenities.
2. Behavior Modification & Restriction: Rules and requirements that the submissive party is expected to adhere to, to curtail, restrict, control, and modify their behavior. These rules are often set out in the form of a written contract.
3. Body Worship: Adoration, affection, and emotional and physical attention, including verbal, directed at a person, their body, or a specific body part, such as the genitals or feet. Worship activities may often include caring for and pampering the body part or person.
4. Breath Play: Acts involving restricting the flow of blood and oxygen to the brain, commonly by means of choking. Also known as Asphyxiation.
5. Chastity: The use of mental control or a physical device to restrict and control the sexual activities of a partner. May be short or long term.
6. Dress Control: Controlling the clothing choices, hairstyle, and other appearance elements of a submissive partner. Often paired with bimbofication and micromanagement.
7. Collar & Leash: Wearing a collar, often paired with a leash, as a sign of submission to another person, either short-term or long-term. The term 'being collared' is often used to refer to a submissive party who is in a long-term committed relationship with a Dominant party.
8. Competition: Competing with one or more subs for the pleasure and entertainment of a Dominant party.
   
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9. Crawling: Acts in which a submissive party crawls on all fours, or along the ground, instead of walking, to show submission to a Dominant party.
10. Eye Contact Restrictions: The control and restriction of how, when, and with whom a submissive party is allowed to make eye contact.
11. Following Orders: Undertaking tasks and activities as ordered by a Dominant party, to denote submission.
12. Food Choice & Directed Eating: Ceding control over food intake and choices to a Dominant party as a form of submission.
13. Forced Bisexuality: Engaging in sexual activities with members of both genders, against your will to some degree. The act is performed to show submission to a Dominant party.
14. Forced Exercise: Instructing a submissive party to engage in short or long-term exercise programs, as a form of body modification and control, or as discipline and punishment.
15. Forced Heterosexuality: Engaging in sexual activities with members of the opposite sex, usually against your will to some degree.
16. Forced Homosexuality: Engaging in sexual activities with members of the same sex, usually against your will to some degree.
    
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17. Forced Masturbation: Acts in which a submissive party is forced to masturbate but not necessarily bring themselves to orgasm, using their hands or toys, often in view of the Dominant party, or for a time duration as specified by the Dominant.
18. Forced Nudity: Acts in which the submissive party is instructed to disrobe and remain naked, usually for an extended period of time.
19. Forced Servitude: Activities in which acts of service, ranging from domestic chores, to gardening, to personal service, and everything in between, are performed for the pleasure, convenience, and entertainment of the Dominant party.
20. Given Away: Acts involving a submissive party being given away to another party, at the whim of the Dominant, sometimes against their will. Acts performed while in the service of the other party may be sexual or non-sexual.
21. Hot Waxing: Activities involving the application of hot wax on the skin, either to cause pleasure and pain sensations or for the removal of bodily hair.
22. Housework: Activities requiring the submissive party to perform housework-related duties and chores. These may be performed in a utilitarian manner, in the nude, or may be part of sexual activities or role play.
23. Humiliation: Physical and verbal acts in which a person is humiliated, belittled, and shamed, privately or in front of others.
24. Kneeling: The act of kneeling on the knees to display submission towards a Dominant party.
    
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25. Lecturing: Having to listen to a verbal monologue for instruction, reprimand, discipline, or similar.
26. Name Changing: Renaming a submissive party, either temporarily for the duration of a scene or legally and permanently as a mark of Ownership.
27. Orgasm Control: Controlling the frequency and volume of orgasms a person is allowed to have, and when they are allowed to have them.
28. Orgasm Tease, Denial, & Edging: Acts involving a party being prevented from orgasming, either for short or extended periods of time. Sexual stimulation is common, with the submissive party often being required to edge: pushing stimulation as close as they can go to orgasming without actual release.
29. Orgasms on Command: Activities where a submissive party is required to orgasm on command, sometimes without prior stimulation. A variation of this could be the use of Sybian and other sex machines to induce repeated forced orgasms.
30. Personality Modification: Behaviors, routines, and activities designed to alter the behaviors and personality of a submissive party, to meet the requirements of the Dominant party's ideal of the perfect submissive, as an act of submission.
31. Sensory Deprivation: Having the amount of sensory input you're exposed to blocked or limited, eg, blindfolds, earplugs, etc.
    
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32. Serving Orally: Activities in which a submissive partner will please and pleasure a Dominant partner using their mouth, most often in the form of oral sex and rimming.
33. Sleep Deprivation: Activities in which the Dominant partner will employ tactics designed to limit a submissive's time spent sleeping, sometimes to create a vague or confused state.
34. Speech Restrictions: The restriction and control of speech and dialogue, including who is spoken to, tone, and any other element of spoken communication.
35. Standing in the Corner: Acts where a submissive party will be made to stand or kneel facing a wall or into the corner, often for purposes of discipline.
36. Struggling: Activities where the submissive party is put in positions where they struggle bodily, either against the Dominant, or even with bindings.
37. Symbolic Jewelry: Jewelry worn to represent and make others aware of the relationship status, or as a form of reward or control.
38. Tattoos & Markings: Temporary or permanent designs and markings applied to the body as an act of submission, or to denote the relationship status of the wearer.
39. Torture: Activities in which various torture implements and activities are used to instill apprehension, fear, or pain in the submissive party.
40. Forced Weight Loss & Gain: Exercise and food control activities designed to promote weight loss or gain, often controlled by the Dominant party.

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